Profile chocolateman: Chocolate Man Toy

Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.

I Would Describe Myself As This is truly my philosophy of love!!

I believe, ideal love is really only obtained between two sincere, mature and independent people. It is our inner struggle to perfect these attributes that is the key. Real love is not two people clinging to each other; it can only be between two strong people secure in their individuality!

True love should not change who we are. It is a process that expands on our ability to cherish, not just one love, but all people. It can make us stronger, lifts us higher and it will deepen us as individuals. Yet, in the end, we can only partner with somebody who somehow "fits us". The same is true of friendship. Only to the extent that we enhance our lives, can we hope to develop wonderful bonds of the heart in the future.

We can lose ourselves in romantic attachment, but the truth is, the euphoria is unlikely to last for long. Indeed, the likelihood of undergoing suffering and sadness only grows over time. As long as we remain unable to redress our own weaknesses, we will be miserable no matter where or to whom we commit to. We can never become truly happy unless we ourselves undergo a personal transformation, one that we are comfortable with.

At times daily life can seem all too drab and unexciting. Living itself can sometimes seem a strain, and few of us realistically expect what joy we feel, to last forever. However, when you fall in LOVE, life seems filled with excitement. We feel like the leading character in a novel. But, if you get lost in love just because you are bored, and consequently veer from the path you should be following, then love is nothing more than escapism. What you are doing is retreating into a dream world, believing in an illusion. Unfortunately, you realize it wasn't at all what you thought it would be.
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Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.

My Body Type Is Athletic
My Height Is 6' 0 (1.83 m)
My Eyes Are Black
My Ethnicity Is African American
My Marital Situation Is Single
I Have Kids Yes - At Home
I Want Kids No
My Best Feature Is Arms
Body Art Other
My Hair Is Bald
I Have One Or More Of These No pets
Willing To Relocate Yes

Status What do you do?

My Education Level Is Some College
My Current Employment Status Is Self-employed
My Speciality Is Administrative / Management
My Job Title Is Green Build Consultant
I Make This Much In A Year Under $100,000USD/yr
I Live Alone
At Home All Is Calm
I'm A Smoker No
I Drink Yes - Socially

Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?

Back In High School, I Was A Jock
My Social Behavior Is Boisterous, Party Starter, Flirtatious, Outgoing
My Interest And Hobbies Are Exercising, Arts & Crafts, Sports, Family, Dining, Theater, Travel, Cars, Volunteering
My Idea Of A Great Time Is Trying New Things, Relaxing, Going To A Concert
An Ideal First Date Would Be On the beach in Cobo having dinner.
I've Always Wanted To Try Ski diving
My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, A Flirt

Views Views on life.

My Religion Is Christian
I Attend Services Never
My Political Views Are Democrat
My Goal In Life Is My goal is to build a Green Build Construction company.
My Kind Of Humor Is Friendly, Slapstick

Taste What do you like?

On Tv, I Always Watch News, Documentaries, Dramas, Sports
When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Romance, Drama, Thriller
When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Blues, Jazz, Latin, Soul, Reggae, Gospel
When I Read, I Always Read News, Business, Fiction, Sports, Technical
My Idea Of Fun Is Being with a woman of substance

Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?

What Do You Find Attractive? Good Looks, Great Skills, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power
What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Date, Intimate, Committed